MALE MONITORS
Male home visitors face some unique issues and challenges. Here are some unique challenges you may face.
1. Men communicate differently than women. You may find that some providers may feel uncomfortable communicating with you.
For example: your body language may be perceived differently by a female provider. A female Monitor may have a stern look and the provider may interpret it as serious. However, a male with a stern look may be perceived as threatening. Be particularly aware of your tone of voice and facial expressions.
2. You may encounter a provider with a jealous husband and he does not feel comfortable having a male visit his wife. Try to schedule your visit when he is home or bring another home visitor with you.
3. In some cultures it is improper for a man to visit a female without someone else present. Be respectful of cultural and ethnic differences. Talk with your supervisor and determine how to address this issue.
As a male you need to pay special attention to any of the above situations. When you sense misunderstandings or uncomfortable situations you need to anticipate the problems they may cause. Address problems before they become serious issues.
It is also important that you carefully document what occurs during your home visit. Your precise and routine documentation shows your professionalism. Don’t discount your instincts, is you feel you need to remove yourself from a situation terminate your visit immediately and leave. Document what happened and why you left.
Do not let yourself be placed in a vulnerable position. If you feel a provider is overly defensive or is responding to your presence in an inappropriate way, remove yourself.
Do not put providers on your social media or join their social media. You need to be particularly aware of your position and keep an appropriate balance of authority between you and your providers.